Dealing with disappointment is a tricky thing. It is never nice to have your hopes and expectations dashed. Disappointment comes when you have allowed yourself to believe that something will happen, and it turns out not to be the case. It is very easy to allow this disappointment to consume you and to become a …
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Set A Target
Bumbling along is lots of fun, But setting a target gets things done!
That Thing You Want To Achieve: Keep Trying
Sometimes it feels like pushing water uphill. It might feel impossible now That doesn’t mean it always will. That thing that you want to achieve probably won’t happen over night. You know this, otherwise you’d have already done it. But sometimes, on the way to doing something we really want, we get overwhelmed with the …
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How To Make Someone Love You?
Q. How can you make someone love you? A. You can’t. But it doesn’t mean that they won’t or don’t. Let go of the idea of trying to make anyone feel anything for you. You are not in control of other people’s emotions and feelings. You can only work on yourself. So love yourself first! …
On The Subject Of Problems
Everyone has problems. So they say. But not everyone shares them. Some people find problems everywhere. Some people overshare. How do you deal with problems? Do you keep them quietly to yourself or do you seek out people to listen? I’ve always been a stubbornly independent sort of a girl. I can’t stand being told …
What’s Your Cup Of Tea?
What’s your cup of tea? For me it has to be Twinings English Breakfast tea. Milk and two sugars thanks! I’d have to see your teaspoons to confirm the sugar amount officially though. There are some rogue-sized spoons, either too big or too small, on the streets today. *said Goldilocks! 🙂 It’s one of the …
Father’s Day
Today Father’s Day is celebrated in: Afghanistan Albania Antigua and Barbuda Argentina Aruba Bahamas Bahrain Bangladesh Barbados Belize Bermuda Brunei Darussalam Canada Cambodia Chile People’s Republic of China Colombia Costa Rica Cuba Curaçao Cyprus Czech Republic Dominica Ecuador Ethiopia France Ghana Greece Guyana Hong Kong Hungary India Ireland Jamaica Japan Kenya Kosovo Kuwait Laos Macau …
Accept What You Can’t Change
Accept what you can’t change. There is no point in worrying about things you can do nothing about, nor using them as sticks to beat yourself with. But on the other hand, if you absolutely cannot accept something, make a change! Whether physical change or emotional change, tell yourself that you are the master of …
And then what?
We all all have our dreams. Some bigger than others. Some comfortable and safe. But in the setting of goals, if you want to push yourself a little further, ask yourself if your dream came true, what would come next? Those three little words ‘And then what?’ hold the key to your ultimate desires. Give …
#MyFuturePast
If I could go back in time and give myself some words of advice, inspiration and motivation, it would have to include the following: Dear #MyFuturePast, Talk more. People don’t know what you don’t tell them. Learn to take advice. You don’t know everything, and likely never will. Don’t ‘not do’ something for fear of …
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